My Own Quote

Soo many quotes that i have written lately. I posted some of them on my twitter account here. Kindly read the one or all quotes that suits you bellow:

About Language:

#Your language represents your personality. Negative words, negative people, negative effects.

#Language affects perception. Good people, good language, good mindset.

#Language is not about communication. It's about identity. Polite words that u use, shows how polite the way you think and act.

About Marriage:  

#Maybe it's true, i lost something that can only be achieved when i was single. But marriage makes me feel that i have everything.

#When you're ready to get married, then u're ready to ignore some ambitions. Not because of a bad marriage, but now the priority is about two people.

About Life: 

#I think it's not a deal when bad habits are hard to stop and good habits are hard to start. My point is H-a-r-d doesn't mean we can't.

#Life seems like cooking. Spice will not be useful if we don't know how to mix it. That was practice, but as the essence,we still have to master theory.

#There is no turning back. If u can't go forward, you have to survive by standing, sit down or even sleep! As long as u still alive. Simple.

#Nothing big ideas if u have'nt words to express them.

#Most important of education that we should have is educate our mind by positive thinking. Simple.

#Our decision today is the result of yesterday. Dare to take the best decision, even though it has a big risk!

#Wherever we are, we would never be happy if we don't have a willing heart to be in that place.

#Lovely personality is the best make up ever. Simple by smile!

#Sometimes we are worrying about the future. In fact, all determined from the present. Go with it today!

# Form of fortune is not just money, but also happiness and peace. Allah is the giver of good fortune. Hamdalah.

# Unpredictable. We never know where our life is going. So just make it easier with spontaneous and grateful.

#Smart people doesn't complain when they're waiting. This is because waiting has a lesson about patience.

#When you're sad, think that it is a way to be grateful for further happiness. Simple.

#When things didn't turn out the way we wish it would,stay calm. Life isn't perfect, neither are we.

#There is no easy choice. That's why a choice teaches us many things and regret is just a way for us to learn.

#Life is just like a guitar. There is no sound if u just see it. There must be an effort to play it.

#Life will always be filled with choices. Not a matter of right or wrong,but the process of learning the consequences.

#Better say thanks for what happened in my life instead of getting angry and putting myself in a bad mood.

#If  you act like a kid, that's just means that u want people treat u like a kid.

#Good person will be yours if our attitude is good enough.

#Encourage yourself is the first step to encourage others.

-Meila R

My Life After Married

Simple. i love all that simple. Decision to marry at the age of 23 is also a simple decision. After married to Ahmad Jumadil, a man that i love, life is different now. When single, i was like spending time outdoors. Teaching, a part-time journalist, broadcast and college-life together. But it all changed slowly since the January 13, 2013. Slowly but surely, i began to reduce the hectic schedule. Perhaps, it has come a time when all will change. Especially after knowing the first two months of pregnancy after four months of marriage. I chose to move to the area where husband work: Sarolangun! Lucky me, my study has been completed. I still have a chance to teach here and being a teacher at MAN 1 Sarolangun.

But now there is no longer broadcast-world, rush-hour assignment or search for news as i did when i was a journalist. Everyday, i wake up  at five, cooking for breakfast and packed lunches husband, then go teach, come home around 2 pm. Sometimes i use my-afternoon to cleaning the house and other work. Is like a  heaven when i was looking at husband's cute smile and my round belly. Feels impatient expecting my first child. 
 
Probably, i still have sooo many dreams. But being a wife and mother is the dream of many single in this world. I am grateful, very grateful with what i have now.